Big c!it energy is the root of female sex liberation

女权主义中的性解放正逐渐被男权叙事改造成一种滥交女孩的人设，很像那些表演式女权男的镜像。

Feminism sexual liberation is increasingly being rewritten by patriarchal narratives into the archetype of the sexually available ‘cool girl’ — the mirror of performative feminist men.

因为缺乏真正的主体性，所以只能更卖力的向外求，以外界认可作为能量来源，却没有自己的种子。

Without true sovereignty, they can only endlessly seek outward validation as a source of energy, because they carry no inner seed of their own.

真正的女性性解放，其核心其实是：
将男性从女性高潮中的必选项，变成可选项。

The core of female sexual liberation is:
transforming men from required into optional in female orgasm.

也就是说：我根本不需要依赖男性来获得高潮。

In other words, I don’t need to rely on men to have orgasm at all.

在整段性行为中，我的注意力真正需要关注的是自己的性高潮，而不是通过配合男性来获得男性认可高潮。

Throughout the entire sexual experience, my attention should be centered on my sexual orgasm — not on achieving a male validation orgasm through pleasing or accommodating men.

然而大部分女性误以为获取很多男性认可高潮就等于性解放了， 这就是滥交酷女孩和性解放女权主义者看似只有一线之隔的巨大鸿沟。

Yet many women mistake accumulating more male validation orgasm for sexual liberation itself. That is why the sexually available cool girl and the sexually liberated feminist may appear separated by only a thin line, while in reality there is a massive gulf between them.

女人不需要性感也可以获得高潮。如果性感是一种自由，那为何这种自由从未落在男人身上？
只有当女性精神贫瘠的时候，她才会把性感的皮囊当作唯一的底牌，陷入被异性青睐和被同性羡慕的怪圈。

Women do not need to be sexy in order to have orgasm. If being sexy is truly a form of freedom, then why has this freedom never been equally demanded from men?
It is often only when a woman is spiritually impoverished that she turns sexual attractiveness into her only bargaining chip — trapping herself in a cycle of craving male desire and female envy.

真正的牛逼是什么？
是当你处于自己最不性感、最不讨好、最不符合男性欲望的时候，你还敢不敢向男人索取高潮？你是否敢把注意力完全放在自己的快感上，而不是时刻顾虑他的感受？

What is Big c!it energy?
When you are at your least sexy, least performative, least desirable by male standards — do you still dare to ask men for your orgasm? Can you focus entirely on your own pleasure instead of constantly give a fuck to his feelings?

这其实是一个非常硬核的女性性解放练习。如果连这种胆量都没有，又何谈女性解放。

This is actually a hardcore practice of female sexual liberation. If you do not even have the courage for this, then what does women’s liberation really mean?”